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I don't know any Lemmy users IRL. I have nudged my friends towards it. My partner has asked me to post things a few times. Just curious.

Edit: running total including the commenter: 32.5 people

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[-] nadram@lemmy.world 45 points 1 month ago

None. Although I've never asked

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 month ago
[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 26 points 1 month ago

0 and I hope I never meet any of you.

[-] QuincyPeck@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

Lemmy? I can’t even get them off the goddamned Facebook.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Ha, I have a few of those myself

[-] konalt@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago

Trick question. I'm the only real user on the internet. Nice try.

[-] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Dead internet fact

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago

That's what the bot would say.

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[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 month ago

I've never met anyone in person who's even heard of Lemmy. Well, at least whenever it's brought up 😅

[-] iSeth@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 month ago
[-] BertramDitore@lemm.ee 16 points 1 month ago

Any time I’ve brought it up everybody glazes over the first time I say the words “instance” or “federated.” I’ve tried the email analogy, but they lose interest immediately.

[-] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Call them "communities", not "instances", that might work better

[-] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

This made me think about my struggles with trying to learn moves in fighting games.

The tutorial can’t tell me the move with actual button combinations. No. Instead I have to read it as punch + kick + grab first. And because I’m a friggin’ noob, I have to try to interpret what buttons those actions are.

How is this relevant? It really isn’t, the more I think about it. Bad comparison. Ah well. At least you know how sad I am at fighting games now.

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[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Yeah it's an annoying stumbling block. Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

It feels like there should be a sign up page that just gives users a default instance (randomly selected from the top 10 maybe), to avoid the problem.

[-] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago

Blue Sky "fixed" that by only having one instance.

I suppose we could "fix" it in a similar way by inviting people to a specific instance instead of pointing them at join-lemmy.org.(Although that site has improved massively since the last time I saw it.)

Don't even mention instances or federation, just say "hey you should join me on ".

Once they are using it, that's the first hurdle, and they'll notice pretty quickly that there are other servers that all (mostly) talk to each other.

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[-] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

2 in my local area. It's how I found out about it. We have been slowly growing the community.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago
[-] socsa@piefed.social 14 points 1 month ago

Oh God I would never admit this to anyone IRL

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Haha, I stop short of giving them my username

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 month ago

Buddy, I don't even know myself.

[-] Stovetop@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

0, and happy to keep it that way.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Zero. I think one lives near me based on some posts they made (as in near the same major city, could still be hours away). Another mentioned going to the same convention I go to every year but it's a massive convention that brings in people from all over the world. The two friends I have that used RIF is fun for Reddit back in the day switched to the official app instead of trying alternatives.

[-] sockman@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

No. No one else, which is great.

[-] danakongur@lemmy.spronkus.xyz 8 points 1 month ago

one of my friends uses lemmy

[-] chillBurner@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 month ago

No. No one else, which is too bad.

[-] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Zero. I know a couple of you nerds live in Philly and that terrifies me. I also know the reverse is true. This is the game we have agreed too.

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[-] Carighan@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

None, and that's probably a good thing. And also really not unexpected given how small the platform is.

[-] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago

None. I normally don't give out my social media to people IRL, so there's no way they'd know I'm on Lemmy not I know they're on here either.

[-] Thorry84@feddit.nl 6 points 1 month ago

I have had people who I know from other platforms come across me on Lemmy. Just got a DM the other day saying "Found you", we had a good laugh about it since we didn't know we both used Lemmy. However IRL I don't think anyone I know is nerd enough to be on Lemmy.

[-] diabolik@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 month ago

None, as far as I know.

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago

I convinced one person to make an account but they don't use it. I do know another person IRL who uses Mastodon, so i send them Lemmy stuff there

[-] QuentinCallaghan@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 month ago

Not a single one.

[-] faltryka@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

None here, had never thought about that. Now I feel lonely.

[-] vatlark@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

You have all of us and the Lemmy shenanigans. It's a pretty lively bunch.

[-] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 5 points 1 month ago
[-] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 5 points 1 month ago

Zero. However I would be interested in seeing anyone in real life. I feel like it would go do in Lemmy history.

[-] MakingWork@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago

There seems to be 3 forum platforms.

  1. Lemmy
  2. Reddit
  3. Gab

I hear about reddit on the radio and people talk about reddit. No one talks about the other two.

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[-] gregor@gregtech.eu 4 points 1 month ago

Just one, the only relatively tech-savvy person I know irl

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[-] ace_garp@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Seen with my own eyeballs?

2

But I'm pretty sure they post to Mastadon and it is visible here on Lemmy. Or maybe they have accounts on Lemmy.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[-] ByteMe@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I have one friend that suggested him to use it, he tried it, he doesn't use it a lot, does it count?

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[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

I tell many people about it, probably none have signed up but it's not my business to know their username if they have. Might be fun to meet some of you.

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None. Even trying to suggest Mastodon, still no luck which I just stopped as I'm just exhausted of hearing the answer "no".

[-] WheelcharArtist@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago
[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My partner was on it for like a minute but I don't think they use it anymore. Certainly not as much as I do.

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