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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Cris_Color@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

  • Be kind

  • Ask people what they think, and why

  • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility (EDIT: no, this is not specifically referring to Nazis. I get it, they're the first thing that comes to mind. I'm not telling you to approve of Nazis I'm just saying be kind to your fellow lemmites)

  • Engage sincerely

  • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

  • Make this small space worth being in

A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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[-] AtHeartEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago
[-] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Well I came here to chew bubblegum and talk shit, and I’m all out of bubblegum.

[-] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 months ago

I am sorry surph_ninja, but I have to be honest, I was the one that stole your bubblegum

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[-] kek@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 months ago

Great post.

To add to this, not resorting to calling others tankies or Russian bots when you have differing opinions, especially around politics.

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[-] rayyy@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

I don't miss the thousands of obnoxious, foul mouthed folks on FB that I routinely blocked. Haven't experienced any of that on the fediverse yet.

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[-] Alpha71@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

OP simply asks people to be kind, People proceed to tear each other apart..

OP now knows how Jesus felt 🤣

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[-] TanteRegenbogen@feddit.org 2 points 3 months ago

Tell that to the people who make a dozen sockpuppet accounts to insult me just because I disagreed with them.

[-] pseudo@jlai.lu 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Second best thing you can go is to report unkind people.

[-] TanteRegenbogen@feddit.org 1 points 3 months ago

That is why the person made so many sockpuppet accounts. As soon as one was banned, they made another.

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[-] shaggyb@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Unless you're a republican or other type of nazi. Then you can absolutely go all the way to hell.

Tolerance got us here.

[-] Casteyes@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Generalizing is a logical fallacy. Not all Republicans are Nazis.

Some are rotten. Some are good people that just got duped.

It's not black and white.

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[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

I can co-sign this if we can agree that some types of ‘disagreements’ don’t belong on the fediverse, a la the Nazi bar problem.

[-] MITM0@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Oh trust me, I try to be as kind as possible. But the people here, Oh my... I got hated on for "using too much HTML".

[-] kepix@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

retail middle management vibes

[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

I see you around a lot, and you're consistently doing exactly this. I really respect that.

[-] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Thank you very much, I do my best :)

By the way I love your username lol. Take care!

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