Yeah, you're not winning points by becoming aggressive with the people who you want on your side.
This isn't Reddit, and that's kind of the point. I do want higher standards here and the way to make your point is with words, not slurs.
Bring receipts. Link posts if that's your thing, screenshots if you want.
I took a screenshot of what and who I found objectionable, which I am willing to share, however I won't post it publicly because it's (to me) hate speech.
I was browsing through /all and had the misfortune of finding a transphobic post from the site. Blocked user and community but if that's an indication of what they're putting out, hard pass on the rest of it.
As someone in that weird space of end GenX/too early to be Millennial, I support you.
That would take effort. Does anyone from GenX really wanna do that?
It's a thing. There's nothing less attractive than having to play parent to an adult who can't pull their own weight in managing a household.
Can't recognize that a full trash can needs to go out without being told? Can't realize dishwashers that are full need to be run without reminding? Can't find where clothes need to go when they're clean?
If that workload is falling on one person most of the time, over time it can become a source of resentment.
When both people have full time jobs, it's like coming home to a second job.
This is the way.
"Shit just works", but that's just because I came here when others were overwhelmed, so...
Garak.