Could be either, could be a bit of both. Hard to say really. My guess is the last one.

Now go do your chores, you lazy little hottie.

It's an actual thing. When it feels more like you have a teenage son than a partner it's hard to get turned on by them, even if you weren't already too exhausted from clearing up after them.

This could be climate-related. She might mean you're working too hard and need to cool off. Try to stay hydrated out there because you're looking hot.

In my experience it’s both 😁

You should read The Five Love Languages. This is an actual thing. Different people express and receive love differently. “Acts of Kindness” is one of them. My partner loves when i do things, and i know this, so i do it because i know it makes her feel loved. And that’s hot.

IME, many women have a thing for when a guy is just being motivated and doing something active.

Could be real, either way I definitely get laid more when I do stuff around the house. I read a study that basically suggested doing chores helps because it relieves the stress of your partner, freeing them up to feel a little more amorous.

The question is really why does she have to trick you into doing chores? :')

Both is the answer. You do look hot doing chores. Also chores done is a turn on. It's like oysters and chocolate, but your house is tidy and it's not gross.

It's absolutely both. Her "love language" is probably "acts of kindness". That's how my wife is. So, she is probably seeing it as an attractive act, and telling you that also makes you do it more often.

It's a thing. There's nothing less attractive than having to play parent to an adult who can't pull their own weight in managing a household.

Can't recognize that a full trash can needs to go out without being told? Can't realize dishwashers that are full need to be run without reminding? Can't find where clothes need to go when they're clean?

If that workload is falling on one person most of the time, over time it can become a source of resentment.

When both people have full time jobs, it's like coming home to a second job.

Just say you feel the same way when she does chores

If it is a trick, they're all in on it. As a joke I sent my wife a picture of me scrubbing the tub without a shirt on.

Didn't realize the effect it would have.

Take it from me, men who do chores around the house are so hot.

So are men who buy tickets to "Barbie".

My wife calls it "chore-play" and it seems to really work for her. Even if its a trick, the house will be clean and everyone gets a little fun, what's the harm?

Yes

Independence and self respect is sexy, and doing chores is a form of independence (you know how take of yourself) and is a form of self respect (you don't let yourself live in filth). It also implies that you don't view your gf as the designated house maid and not being humiliated/burdened like that is a big relief, especially for women who grew up around sexism. Who might have internalized the idea that men doing chores is on par with something like gift giving or going on dates, something special done out of love, and not just something that needs to be done. She could genuinely find you doing chores sexy, but also having to do less chores is a bonus no matter who you are, it can be both.

i think dudes are hot when they just sit around and do nothing, with their shirt off of course, so what do i know

Some women's libido goes down from the stress of seeing a lot of chores needing to be taken care of. Doing those chores reduced the stress. Going further and doing what is normally their share of housework can be an act of affection.

It's also noted in a study of women asked to rate a number of pictures of men on various factors including attractiveness and reliability. When they are also asked for dating preferences, as the age range went up, the prioritization on reliability ratings also went up. Doing chores is reliable AF.

More to the point, she's already told you she likes it. Just believe her.

Let’s be honest she’s trying to get some and your oblivious. Wake up and read the room 😁😁

Well, there's this book:

https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/15/book-of-womens-fantasy-men-doing-chores/

Short answer yes

Long answer it might be a ploy but it'll most likely work. If nothing else you doing your part gives her more time to be attracted to you.

I've known many women who claim something like this. Even if true, every one of them would drop their drawers for a lead guitarist living out of his car. So you know, there's all types of sexy

You wanna be hot or not?

Query not compliable. I don't know how you look.

Personally, I’m so busy, and have so much mental load that just one less thing I have to do is a breath of fresh air. Now, if husband thinks to himself hey I have a little spare time, I can totally help AttackBunny out and do one of her chores for her….uh…. Yeah. Super hot. Idk if it’s as much about the actual act of doing the choice, or more likely, the though behind it, but yeah.