When you talk about LGBTQ+ people like objects that need studying and understanding and "acceptance", instead of fellow human beings just like you
Ever heard of the the term "anthropology"? "Sociology"? "Gender studies?" Various disciplines that study humanity broadly? The entire academic discipline called "Humanities"? I don't know why you're so uppity. You might as well accuse the entire scholarly field for "studying" human lives and aspects. What is life if one doesn't study it and all its components?
you're feeding their ignorance and their bigotry and confirming their opinion to them as a legitimate one
No! You completely misunderstand. What I'm saying is use the decades of research on human sexuality and gender against bigotry on lgbt! If someone say there is only two gender-- man and woman-- tell them gender and sex are not the same. Male and female are biological sex (there are actually more than one but explaining this requires an entirely different discussion), whereas gender is an abstract concept in which a person is placed social expectations based on the sex he/she is born with. Tell the bigots there are cultures that recognise more than one genders so their conflation of sex and gender is moot!
To be honest though, some of the communities I frequent to in reddit do not have their counterparts here. If they do, they aren't active. Best example is AskHistorians. They have a Lemmy here but it's basically dead. Which is why I still go to reddit. Fingers crossed that majority of subreddit communities will relocate to here so the community will thrive.