[-] EerieSunflower@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Sorry for late reply. I get "banned" banned, not even just suspended. So I guess that's finale

[-] EerieSunflower@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, I figured that by trying to avoid it via VPN and other accounts/devices. Insane.

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I have got a false suspension on my main account and since not having a reply for two weeks dumbly decided to create another one, since reddit was a huge part of my social life. I tried lemmy, but the community is not that vast, and most of the things that I looked up are already well discussed on Reddit. Then I got my second account banned as well as the first one, and they never replied to any appeal. Is there a way to get unbanned, at all? Maybe someone has experience

[-] EerieSunflower@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Notes application on steroids, 99.99% of time functionality other than that is a timewaste, like building those Zettelkasten kind of things, its just stacking things on top of each other to forget about them

[-] EerieSunflower@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

What helps me with toxic shame is seeing that the world, although it has bad and negative and evil sides to it, is beautiful on itself, by default. There is no need to prove that, because it becomes so apparent when you let go of toxic shame. So if you keep a good image of the world in your head, if you preserve that, then you're good by default too, and as much as you think there's reasons for you to think badly about yourself, there are also those things that are there to think nicely

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Hi. I wonder how do you keep following through on your ideas/goals/topics that you want to research (in specific field or some niche idea/interest) and not burn out/get bored and forget about them altogether?

I've found I often don't have enough time to spend on an interest right away, and then I put it in my todo list/special folder in obsidian to check on later (article, wikipedia page, a video, movie or a book), and then it just sits there. When I open the list I start to think that I need to fix this pile of stocks and start going one by one on them, but by that time they are no longer an interest to me.

Say I got interested in researching history of WWII and Nazi regime because I watched a movie/read a book about that. Then, I just go on to the internet to find out more about it. At the moment I'm thinking "I dont have enough time for all that", so I just get some books, articles, videos about it and stuck it in a file named "to research". Later on, I'm terrified of even looking at that file, it seems large, and when I open it, I'm bored from second one because I "forced" myself to do this, instead of flowing inside of it, like I did with the movie.

I guess being dilligent is very hard for me. I feel like the problem mainly lies in my "fear of time" more than a spurred attention span. But I'm thinking about how can I keep up with irl things like work/chores/whatever while tagging myself with hobbies instead of being either too chaotic or too "formal" without any interest left behind? How do you do that?

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