I mean, as someone who hasn't encountered these same issues as you, I found btrfs really useful for home use. The snapshotting functionality is what gives me a safe feeling that I'll be able to boot my system. On ext4, any OS update could break your system and you'd have to resort to backups or a reinstall to fix it.
But yeah, it's quite possible that my hard drives were never old/bad enough that I ran into major issues...
I'm guessing espresso. I think, that's a thing that coffee people call a "shot" when they add an espresso to their drink...