[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 3 points 2 weeks ago

Definitely not. Even if I thought he was annoying due to his autism and such, I grew up and it's definitely not his fault how I chose to react to his autism

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 4 points 2 weeks ago

What exactly did the dysphoria feel like?

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I bullied him back when he was in the closet/a girl in high school for being nerdy. As we grew up, we became friends and I discovered he was a guy now. He’s pretty cool :)

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Thank you! Maybe,

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel. Remember that as you continue your journey, though, I'll be here as your friend to support you.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 10 points 2 weeks ago

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 7 points 2 weeks ago

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you. I'll try to be gentle

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 6 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks so much, I will update you tomorrow!!

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 7 points 2 weeks ago

I told her I would still love her and try to be there, she kinda hinted when she said "would you still love me if I was a woman" but I realized I don't like women romantically much

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 9 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you, I'll tell her.

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 7 points 2 weeks ago

I'll tell her, TYSM

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 9 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, I didn't want to be rude

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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world

I'm not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don't like women without her taking it the wrong way.

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

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