I get that POV, but ultimately, water finds its own level. There is always going to be so much out of your control. It's like "play the hand you're dealt". In a poker game, you don't get to decide your hand. You can only play it as well as you can.

Yeah there isn't "sort type" in the settings on Connect. I realised just as I posted that I should've posted in the Connect community. Oh well. Thanks anyway.

Life is hard whether you're ignorant or not, whether you're kind or not. There's no way to make life simple or always comfortable. So I think you're better off choosing to be not ignorant, and to be kind.