[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Nada but thanks. It looks like that from the outside but it isn’t. I searched for the correct parts on rock auto and it looks like the housing gotta be removed

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

Worth looking into, thanks. Or maybe some forums come to think of it

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Can you help me with my car problem too? You did say next

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

This. And plus, privacy. Would you trust someone phoning you up from another country not speaking the language well enough asking for a medical record with identification they don’t use? Maybe OFII or the social worker who was very close with me could have helped, but the hoops would be not worth the trouble just so I can talk about that one crazy time I was on 500mg of Tercian a night.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I was exposed? Lol

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Have you ever learned French? The words bleed together and it is worse in the south. Pouvez-vous repeter is not something they like to hear every 2 seconds. Usually they switch to english because speaking with an accent is offensive. I can read it all day. Not to mention my husband at that time refused to speak in his native tongue with me. And where we worked they were all research scientists who had to learn multiple languages and came from around the world. I was not allowed to go anywhere without him and he confiscated my phone and destroyed it multiple times or said it was stolen. 🤷‍♀️

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submitted 4 months ago by Just4kickz@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Are there any comprehensive websites to use for a car problem?

The driver side drl on my 2020 passat is out and I cannot find the hub inside of it for it. I think it is going to require some disassembly. Checked google and youtube for hours, something needs to come off for it. I poked around and pulled out the turn signal but there are no other capped holes accessible through under the hood or body cover which I removed to poke around. My dad is a car guy but he knows old cars, not newer ones. He helped me a bit but has severe macular degeneration and can’t see in there. I felt up everything and found nothing. I took a look at the module online and I think I might have located that which would need to be removed but a few things look like they need to be removed to access it.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I can speak as much as a french 2 year old. Pas beaucoup. A2 certified.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 14 points 4 months ago

It was tercian! Just popped into my head

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago

Would be easier if in the two years I lived there I would’ve learned enough French.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Yes I just went looking for the papers. You have no idea the hoops I had to jump through to get them. Cannot find them. I found the bloodwork. It is just for novelty which is why I am asking here. If I really want to know that bad I can try to contact the social worker where I stayed.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I really appreciate the length you went to in order to share this with me. I have been on prazosin but stopped because my blood pressure and heart rate runs low and I had to check it in order to take it every night, most often resulting in me not taking it. I have a whole bunch of other things going on also, they thought I has schizoaffective. I have documents from across my lifespan and the case the cptsd was from is documented. It was my brother so, he was charged and sent to a correctional facility. He was expunged at age 18 but I believe some form record still exists because social security got a hold of it. I used to be on SSI.

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I was hospitalized for schizoaffective disorder and given a high dose of liquid medication every night to knock me out. I can’t remember the name of it but I think it originated in Spain. Google isn’t helping me and probably now thinks I am trying to smuggle drugs into the US. Lol.

[-] Just4kickz@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago

My current husband is the abuser who is in a foreign country 😢

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I work full time as a designer/builder of fixtures for a very large corporation (500+ employees). My work directly affects production. I also work in sales for a large corporation (500+ employees). At the part time job, company B (sales) I and other women were harassed. I have proof, witnesses, all of that. I am being sparing with details but I can answer questions on a case by case basis. I filed with company B’s HR, then my family told me to retain a lawyer. I will be doing an intake tomorrow. In the meantime I filed with the EEOC but I can’t get an appointment yet because they are backlogged. I need that charge to file a lawsuit.

Here is where company A comes in. Early in the year I got covid and was out for a week which I used all my sick time on. I have severe ptsd so I took an unpaid day off after that and was put on disciplinary action. If I miss one more day or am late, I am not eligible for promotion or raise. If I miss two days, I am terminated.

To file with eeoc, I will have to take what I can get. That means I may miss work at company A.

I messaged HR at company A briefly stating I needed to meet to discuss what will happen if I need off for eeoc, lawyers, or court dates.

Meanwhile, company b has given me no hours but did the same to most employees I think to cover their bases. I was not the first to complain about said manager.

If I lose both jobs, what are the chances I can get the maximum 300k for the claim? Is it worth it? What would be a reasonable settlement?

Company A underappreciates me, and discriminates against me for my ptsd. At this point im thinking both. Literally everything I do allows this company (A) to function and is made out of my ideas and creativity. I get problems, not solutions. I’ve been refused promotions multiple times despite having a degree for those jobs. I am not paid fairly at either. 26 an hour. I asked for a raise and they only gave me a cost of living adjustment of 50 cents. Company B pays 16 an hour.

Also, my ptsd is from prolonged abuse in childhood and prolonged abuse at age 29. Physical, verbal, visual, sexual on both accounts. One was convicted and the other is in a foreign country. So least to say I am mentally perturbed by all of this and very triggered. Nightmares about work are now meshed up with my abuse and I am having panic attacks at work.

Any advice would be great.

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