I think its being ๐Ÿ‘, i recently discovered i am bi so that was a surprise

+1 and you feel that you are forgetting something important, but you can't remember and the deadline of said something keeps getting closer

I see thanks! I'll focus on the last part. โค๏ธ

[-] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Its not an insult, I would agree that I was naive/too sensitive, it was just unexpected and bummer that I wasn't prepared for in a more grown up environment (maybe this is the correct term)?

I mean its just not common to private chat, I guess it could be interpreted as not mean, but still kinda of uncalled for

[-] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I mean it was a group chat not focused on studies and other people were already sending memes and workout tips there, so I don't really know what I did wrong. Like, it just bothered me, and I am a bit sad that even something so small could bother me,

Thanks! Switched from Reddit to Lemmy recently

[-] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I mean, I am maybe somewhat sensitive, but its just an unnecessary comment when other person doesn't know you personally, I am already used to getting trash on the internet, never received comment like that before even in HS when the other person clearly knows you personally.
Maybe I should add that the whole chat was just me and another sophmore

Its just that I thought that the people from my course would be different, idk its a undergrad math course from a selective uni, but not true I guess. Regardless, thanks for the advice! ๐Ÿ’š

I see, cool! ๐Ÿ’œ

I replied with "well, its just me I suppose", but I guess misplayed "one year older lol", anyway, thanks! I will just think it was some sort of shitpost and move on and just not talk there if its not necessary. I feel like a snowflake for being bothered by this lol

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee

I just entered a text message chat from the group of students of my course, and after talking a there over some days with a sophomore (most of the chat was just me interacting with someone else) someone replied after some time "wow, the freshmen are really getting acquainted, writing shit and what else". That was so out pocket, closed the app and now I am ranting here, is this still kind of behavior normal in your uni/country? Its so bizarre, the guy was just sophomore. EDIT: thanks everyone for the replies, I appreciate them, I think there's some grow on my part to be done, because this seems to be way more common than I think. Welp, kinda of a bummer anyway.

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