Is it though? We are currently seeing the forced nationalism be weaponized.

Just about every sexually reproducing species that we have extensively studied has had some level of homosexuality pop up.

The more interesting ones are the documented cases of trans individuals. Some fish and reptiles can straight up change genders and be fertile. Birds and mammals have documented cases of females starting to exhibit male characteristics in the absence of a male.

First guy ended up gay. Not that I have an issue with that, it was the lies and using me as a cover for his very religious family that stung.

Second cheated. Also stung

Third was actually a decent guy, I ended things with him because we just weren't compatible. That also kinda hurt because I didn't want to hurt him!