the problem to me seems more like you're worried about what other people think? you were defending yourself before you did anything, and it backfired, but if you hadn't gave a fuck in the first place, we wouldn't be 6 replies deep about your anxiety?
anyways, please go tell FB that they're pedophiles.
i'll stick with the tried and true method of just not having a FB. if we all just stopped using it, it would go away. it seems pretty simple to me.
i TPK'd a party whose solution was to kill everything they disagreed with and it definitely made the game better with the next set of PCs they rolled up.