[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Disfunctional lame mafia henchmen

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I can't wait to be unhinged on kbin as well <3 .

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

People are actually unaware that there is math on ph and I find that sad

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm confused, do you automatically get to be in posession of books that have ass pics in them once you live in Ohio? I'm moving there if that's the case lmao

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, the gnomes in my garden that I posed near for my profile picture are real and will judge your soul. Consider those who suffer, for when they suffer, so do you.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Again, I'm sorry you have to deal with a lot right now, I wish I could help you. I forgot to add in my original comment to do "the list". Add to it little by little over time some aspects that stuck with you from the former relationship(if it is not too painful). This is a tool to use for self reflection and to not idealise the former partner(s), it's useful when I think about reaching out.

For me it's easier in a way, the relationship that ended sucked, but my mind often recalls what I wanted it to be instead of what it was. Recalling and seeing what went down is crucial for me, because it lets me know how I acted in certain situations and allows me to take responsibility for my actions(and if I don't like them, to see their root and try to look at it with compassion and patience instead of shame and frustration-still a work in progress for me right now).

While looking forward is scary, there is always something waiting. I thought I would never be worthy of peace or acceotance after I ended a previous relationship, and then the last one happened, which was good when it started. Give yourself time and care, to grieve and recharge. Breakups are exhausting. (Sorry for the long post) I'm rooting for you, and please don't hesitate to reach out whenever you can, I'm looking forward to an update.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

New fear unlocked. I was pissed I couldn't transfer money to pay for a bus ticket, but in comparisson,fuck that.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

The content and spirit of the users feels beyond dead on there. I'm with you on PixelFed though.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

People get used to things they understand so they don't want to learn. Frustration builds as you get older, so I am glad I started a long time ago, and I have a lot of respect for people who are willing to learn constantly and are patient. I learn(ed) from trial and error, I like poking the bear and being able to see what works/doesn't and why. The responses I got regarding lack of linux usage is that people don't like spending time troubleshooting, or they get super jaded and just want something that works then and there, just so they don't think too much about it. But now the irony is that windows will piss them off so much they will have no choice but to learn the distro they choose. It's like vim, at first it seems strange, but once you learn it you will never look back. Learning is done as long as there is curiosity and need involved.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Random workout-anything to get moving. Stretching, Push ups, yoga, calisthenics, dancing, run outside if you can. It is weirdly relaxing.

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Weirdest way to end up on a federal watchlist, but way to have solidarity

[-] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Went on a trip a while back with a relative, here are some of the things that they belived/behaved like(sorry for the long text):Needless gossiping and thinking that other people's achivements threaten your credibility. Anger/apathy/being dismissive as default, snarky useless remarks, belittling other people any chance possible, trying to seem superior through "presenting intelectual", playing "the devil's advocate" just to look edgy and be unnerving, beliving propaganda over science, not apologising when needed, lacking self awareness and being selfish constantly, not going to therapy&health check ups, making poor spirited jokes about other people, not respecting people's space, touching them without permission,being disrespectful on purpose to other people(and to yourself), and the phobias(homophobic, biphobic, transphobic, xenophobic),misoginistic,misandrist, ableist, rascist,antisemitic,heavily nationalist attitude, thinking the world revolves only around you and that other people are just tools&objects, not cleaning after yourself, expecting other people to take care of things for/accompaning you as if they have an obligation, thinking violence settles things, refusing to pay people because "it's for exposure" and "they should do it for the experience/self fuffilment", loud music in public spaces(please use headphones), dismissing people's religious practice just because it isn't exactly how you would do it, pressing other people to live the life you want to but not living the life you want to live yourself, being needlessy pessimistic and cynical about the future(guilty), not being bewildered about earth and not wanting to learn or practice random things(who has time to be hateful when you see a beautiful leaf that has just sprouted?), lack of wanderlust.

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