And you're free to do so, that's the entire point of a decentralised system.
They aren't making decision for anyone but themselves, again, as is the point.
If you don't agree with whatever they do, find an instance you do agree with or start your own.
Staying or leaving has the same amount of personal agency.
So, two things unrelated to the actual topic being discussed.
It's entirely possible to be correct and do it in such a way that invites confrontation and dismissal.
If it seems like everyone apart from you is confrontational and dismissive, perhaps it's time to consider additional perspectives on why that might be happening.