Yeah it feels a bit strange. Back on R I used to mostly lurk but on Lemmy it's still small enough that niche interests need someone to start them up.

Feel free to poke me if you do start a community though!

That'd be fun. Been in regular rp chat for a long time but have only ever done my smutty writing solo

Pretty for sure, a lovely, squeezable pair of handfuls

If you haven't tried it, audio porn. Turn off the lights and the screen, put in some earbuds and close your eyes. They're often slower burn and at least for me is usually a much better experience than video.

Underpaid and overworked 😑

For me, it started out with plain old imagination and porn videos. It took a tragically long time to discover literotica and audio.

At least for me, written erotica (sometimes with the assistance of AI), comics and audio give a much nicer experience with preference changing depending on mood. Part of that might be because it leaves a lot to the imagination.

Only time I use video porn nowadays is when wanting to just "get it over with quickly".

Nya(r/n)lathotep - a.k.a nyan nyan

As a regular dude I'd also like an answer to this question. Every service I've tried so far ends up making me miserable in the long run, which is why I don't use them anymore.

Sort of yeah. I find myself attracted to one set, and have an aversion to the other.

However, the attraction sort of hinges on the idea that they are attached to a person. Even with a close-up, the mind imagines that there is a person, and I prefer a complete view to a close-up. I'm not attracted by sex-toys of the appropriate shape.

Now this is someone seriously applying rule 34 by invoking the second clause (rule 35)

IMO up & downvotes both have a purpose. Content can be disagreeable without being rule-breaking. I've certainly found downvotes a helpful indicator in the past, occasionally highlighting a poor formulation that caused one of my comments to be misunderstood.

A potential middle-ground might be disallowing downvotes on post, but permitting them on comments?

Either way, big thanks to you for hosting the site, and hope the donations situation gets resolved!

Ironically, that makes me inclined to go left.