[-] VeronicaBubble@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

It's perfectly normal to feel grief even if the person or situation weren't right for you. You are grieving what future might have been or your dream of having a happy relationship. But your dream isn't dead and gone -- you can still have that dream with someone else.

Just because you're grieving it doesn't mean you made a bad choice per se, it's just that your body needs to go through this cathartic process.

Our feelings aren't necessarily right -- it's possible to feel anxiety that makes us feel stuck when we need to get on with our lives. It's also possible to mourn the death of a relationship that wasn't right for you in the first place.

How are you feeling right now?

Sadness is a normal feeling that helps us slow down (like in Upside Down) to get a break when things get too much. It doesn't mean you made a bad choice.

VeronicaBubble

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