Hands around my throat. Especially if I’m being fucked by someone who doesn’t care there’s a beard there. But nothing is better than having hands around my throat in a context where I feel entirely safe.

There’s a lot of reasons why someone might ask you to stop, and the critical thing is that you do so immediately and check in.

It can start hurting - maybe you hit a wrong angle, maybe there isn’t enough lube. There can also be triggers associated with sex, psychological aspects where a stray thought, a brief smell or feeling, can make things not fun in the moment. Maybe you are pressing on your partner in a way that starts to feel uncomfortable or cramp. Being penetrated can feel intense and overwhelming, and sometimes it’s possible to slip from fun to not fun out of nowhere.

Making sure that your partner knows that you will stop if asked is critical to helping them feel safe.

I can’t imagine many would care.

I like balls, but the physical impact they provide is that lovely feeling of having the scrotum slap into me. I guess two could provide a heavier impact, but kinetic energy is the square of velocity, not mass.

This isn’t necessarily an answer to your question but -

If someone says they don’t like swallowing/don’t want you to cum in their mouth, regardless of the reasoning, you shouldn’t try to “logic” them into complying with it. Lots of people have preferences, and the least sexy thing you can do is try to persuade someone past a hard no.

I like swallowing, but if I didn’t want to and someone asked me this during the act, it would be a guarantee that I would never hook up with them again.

Yeah lol.

This is a NSFW instance, not a “straight dudes only” instance.

What’s personally annoying is that the front page is almost always the same picture of a woman crossposted to any tangentially related sub. I’m for diversity.

There tend to be a lot of societal consequences for sexually eager women. You can get easily fired from most jobs if they find nudes online.

Also, stalkers and creeps are a big thing. Exhibitionism is often understood as consent for everything.

It fucking sucks, but people don’t behave. I’m not a woman, but it’s also something I have to be concerned about.

That’s kinda my ideal relationship. I’d love having a boyfriend or husband that would offer my body up to his friends. Being able to have a trusted person tie me up and blindfold me beforehand would make free use so much more fun.

My former owner did give me to a woman to be whipped because she had been striking out all night once. That was fun.

Even on my own, I’m always happy to help guys get their dicks off. I usually catch a lot of dick when the bars close - glad to help someone relieve their frustrations.

I take dick from trans women and nonbinary people, wanted to include them too.

I’m a gay trans man. I have a vagina, and I mostly do vaginal sex.

My relationships have been gay relationships, because we were both men and I am unambiguously read as male in public.

But I also do frequently have casual sex. There are a lot of gay men who do find relationships with trans men specifically to be erotic. There are bisexual men who don’t really care what they are topping. There are straight men who just want to fuck a vagina. There are insecure DL men who feel that a trans man is a safe outing.

Being attracted to a trans women as a straight guy is normal. You are expressing attraction to a woman. I’ve known trans women in relationships with 100% straight guys.

The larger reality here is that labels are shorthands, not laws. As a cis straight man, you have been told all of your life that anything outside of being attracted to a certain type of cis women is expected of you, that any non conformance with that script is “gay” and stigmatized.

You can have a sexual encounter or relationship with a trans woman and consider yourself 100% heterosexual if that’s important to you, because you are a man having sex with a woman. Hell - you can even experiment with a cis dude and consider yourself straight - there are piles and piles of dudes flipping through all kinds of apps right now just trying to get their dick sucked by any willing warm mouth.

Sexuality is spectrum and it changes across your life. You don’t have to feel worried about that, there’s nothing wrong with you.

I’m kinda reassured with how common it is to not cum from/be into oral. I have TMJ so I don’t really suck a lot of cocks. I get asked and like it sometimes, but it hurts after a bit :(

Also appreciate that the experience is probably the same after I’ve been used, always been worried that the last guy in a train is missing out. I guess it is a muscle, so maybe working it out makes it tighter long term.

Face. I’ll let guys use my entire back half as a sex doll, but showing my face is intimate and complicated.

Most women would be more willing to have casual sex if it was safer, and women are just as horny as men. Gay hook up culture is a utopia straight people could have if a woman being “easy” didn’t put her in danger - physically, emotionally, or socially. Pregnancy (especially with fear of stealthing), stalking and damages to social reputation are huge concerns with women, and collectively in most cultures many men shoot themselves in the foot here.

Orientation is fluid, and sometimes the people that you have sex with are not people you would want to be in relationships with. There are piles and piles of “straight men” who actively seek out sexual encounters with other men. Social stigma hampers men here to.

Organized BDSM communities tend to get taken over by dangerous people. Frameworks and rules don’t override unhealthy dynamics.