[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 49 points 1 month ago

I think it's really ironic when I see these memes, because it highlights how our own heads will highlight the things that grate against our own nerves.

I assume everybody that this resonates with resonates with it because they themselves have been told to go against their nature and wanna know why the other side hasn't.

I'm the other end of that spectrum. I promise you, people told me all that. "Mind your peers. Share the space. Stop being...so much. Learn to be comfortable in silences. What can't you shut the fuck up?"

I have autism, so I didn't understand why I was always screwing it up. I also hated hearing, "Be yourself. People will like you for who you are," because I found that when I stopped trying to mask, I'd immediately hear all of the above all over again.

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[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 87 points 3 months ago

"Choosing" is a strong word.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 59 points 4 months ago

America. 🦅

I had to stop drinking milkshakes once I started counting calories because of this kind of thing. Like, I knew it was bad, but I didn't know it was this bad. 😬

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 65 points 4 months ago

This meme is so old that I was 27 when I first read it.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 69 points 5 months ago

ADHD. A lot of people might say depression, and ADHD gets misdiagnosed this way too, especially because people are much more familiar with the way depression manifests rather than how ADHD actually manifests beyond stereotypical hyperactivity and difficulty focusing.

What you're describing is executive dysfunction and energy regulation problems. The reason you can't stop scrolling is because your brain doesn't produce dopamine enough, and it's only used to the short bursts it can produce. This creates a feedback loop where you're stuck stimulating yourself with quick, easy dopamine hits, and that's why anything that seems like a prolonged task feels like an impossible endeavor. It's also why you'll get tunnel vision if you ever do start playing that game.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 145 points 6 months ago

Buddy...

  1. Turn your shirt inside out before putting it in the machine.
  2. Set the machine to cold water, delicate/gentle cycle.
  3. The picture you posted is of a dry, hot desert, right? What do you think a machine called a dryer that uses heat will do? Hang them to dry on a cheap rack from Amazon or your shower curtain rod instead.

I have shirts that still look practically new after dozens and dozens of washes.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 76 points 6 months ago

Wtf that's my partner's friend! I've seen people I know on Reddit a few times before, but I didn't expect it on a less populated place like Lemmy. It's a small world.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 63 points 6 months ago

What you’re saying is like, “You complain about being sweaty??? So what, do you complain at the gym too?”

I’m not in a theater. I’m at home. I don’t want the TV crazy loud for a number of reasons which can include the fact that I’m not a terrible neighbor, the time of day, my partner may be asleep, etc.

If I wanted to go to the theater, then I go to the theater where I have certain expectations which includes well-mixed, loud sound. That’s fine, and I will hear both things that way.

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 71 points 6 months ago

Serious question: How is this different than all the other sensationalized headlines about some technology that's gonna change everything, and then you later hear nothing about it?

[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 56 points 8 months ago

I genuinely appreciate the technical breakdown. 💜

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I'm also lactose intolerant, but the devil doesn't sleep just cause I stopped fightin' him.

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99% of my ideas for what to do with friends have to do with "we hang, but at a bar".

I've started to consider suggesting aquarium trips, outdoor movie nights, etc, but then I decided it might be nice to chit chat about it with y'all because I wanna hear what y'all like. Especially things you didn't expect to be as pleasant as they were but became a regular thing.

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[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 78 points 1 year ago

Good thing browntiger15 explained that that was some legit fairy tale level shit right there, or I wouldn't have known from the story.

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[-] itsnicodegallo@lemm.ee 48 points 1 year ago

To add insult to injury, the mom was flying to her brother's funeral when, upon deboarding the plane plane, they were stopped by cops and questioned under suspicion of human trafficking. Can't imagine how rough the whole trip was for her.

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