[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

The original

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've got a good memory, but talking with my partner he will often say "I told you this before" and it's just completely gone over my head cause I've been slightly distracted. I'll be listening but things don't seem to register and it's worse when I'm distracted by the fact that I am having to put so much effort into listening. Edit: typo

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

They call it pop here in North-East of England as well.

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 year ago

I wasn't a black out drunk, mainly cause it didn't take much to make me drunk, but I couldn't stop once I started either. First I hold out on drinking during the week, then I'd have drinks on the evening, then a drink before work then decided to quit before it got further out of hand.

I hope you find the motivation to quit cause honestly drinking is such a waste of time. I genuinely believe all you need is to believe you can.

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

I work in a care home. I also have that thought every single day.

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

I am managing and kind of not managing really. Recently quit smoking and vaping and went off coffee so my brain has been a bit frazzled. But it's getting back to normal.

Biggest help is working longer hours but fewer days and having my shift segmented so that I get downtime between busy hours. I do three days a week and on a workday don't pressure myself to do any housework. On my days off I'll catch up on sleep and housework.

I also have a diagnosis for autism so to me it seems like I can manage some symptoms of my ADHD easier thanks to ASD. But I also then seek a simple life and don't do anything much besides work and looking after my dog and my partner. I'll go out when I'm on holiday.

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

No use crying over spilt (choccy) milk

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

I've got the same issue but with all black socks

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[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

Very cool! Love a small table.

[-] kani@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago

Why not both

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She won't be ignored.

kani

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