[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 6 days ago

I studied politics, and even then I never wanted to run. I just wanted to be a staffer and work on policy and tactics.

I left politics because I felt I couldn't help people, and inter party politics were not something I was interested in. I went back to school so I could help people more directly as a nurse.

I don't think I'm a great candidate, but I feel like I have to do something. No one is coming to save us, we have to so it ourselves.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago

I signed up on the first website, still haven't heard anything. Anyone know who I should contact to follow up?

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 days ago

We need to inspire people.

This. Exactly this. Non-conservatives haven't had anyone to vote for for years, only people to vote against. Biden was anyone other than Trump. They thought that would work for Kamala, but here we are.

Related, when I tried to volunteer for the dems, all they wanted to do was have me make phone calls. I think in got an invite to knock doors like 2 days before the election. I tried to contact people several times to see how I could help energize the base or make sure people were registered and ready to vote. They kept asking me to make calls and send money. Now people like me are going to be directly hurt by these policies, the only question is how much.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 55 points 1 week ago

How do I request asylum in a country that doesn't want to erase trans people?

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 4 weeks ago

I've gotten a disturbing number of messages on grindr from men that are hard core right wing, yet are on a gay dating app. The level of hate, ignorance, and cognitive dissonance is unprecedented. And it's all fueled by highly addictive apps, and pumped at unimaginable scales thanks to AI.

I hate to say it, but I think this really is the end.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 month ago

Also, at a high enough level (104 F), the proteins in your brain start to denature, which leads to death.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm a nurse. Does that count as "blue collar"? Because I absolutely need to shower after 12 hours in the hospital.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 9 months ago

As a trans girl, I get a lot of interest from other trans girls, so it checks out for me.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 11 months ago

I'm working to set up connections to folks in Canada that will be willing to relocate LGBTQ folks across the border.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 11 months ago

Grindr. Cause I'm sure you want to see the ads, lol

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Grammar rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Come correct or don't cum at all.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Just want to comment on the "trap is ok/not ok debate."

It's totally cool if you or your partner(s) identity as a trap. As an older trans girl, being a trap was a badge of honor. It meant not only do you pass, but you're fucking hot. Almost like a trap/not trap distinction of attractiveness (which is also horribly misogynistic and demeaning), but it was a qualifier.

So I get it, part of me likes the idea of being called that - in a private, contextual sense. But the problem is the word and the connotation it has in the general zeitgeist, which implies that a trans person (typically a trans woman) "tricks" a man into having sex with her, and then deserves whatever happens to her, regardless of how dehumanizing it may be.

It is the horrible, completely unjustifiable rationale behind the Panic Defense, and that's why it is a term that needs to be buried. Continued use of it is an unconscious signal that trans women are perpetrating some kind of deception just by existing in a man's field of vision (if, of course, she comes close enough to cis white heteronormtive standards of beauty).

Be woke. Don't say trap (except in the bedroom. And then smack my ass a little 😋).

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White sauce rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

I'd say about 100% of my woes could be solved by covering me in a creamy, white sauce.

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