About half and half. If I'm masturbating to something, it's usually amateur work because porn has been really meh for a while now.
I hate when someone puts a bra size into their story. They almost never know how bra sizing works, and it immediately irritates me. I've seen a lot of 32in waisted women that somehow wear a 44F bra 🙄.
I'll describe shapes and sizes, but from a character's point of view. I'll write it in a way that a regular person might have described through conversation or reaction. Sort of like your preferred example.
I don't think it would matter to me. I would, at minimum, assist in the management of their career since there's a history of exploitation and abuse in the industry. I don't know if it's still that way these days, but you can never be too sure.
It is never too late to revisit an old story. Whether you want to rewrite it or continue it. If you have an itch to scratch, scratch it.
This post was the first to be made. I think the other was made to get a rise out of "snowflakes" or whatever.
The thing is that this post isn't even shitty. The question is both fine and valid, and the OP hasn't done anything terrible either. I just like pointing out things to improve communication.
Additionally, the use of context would have told you that I was pointing out a well known red flag to benefit OPs conversations with women.
And for informational purposes, an article detailing why using "female" as a noun is a problem: https://www.jezebel.com/the-problem-with-calling-women-females-1683808274
I generally find that a gentle reminder helps people who are not a problem, and quickly reveals those that are the problem.
I suggest not referring to women as "females". Many find that to be de-humanizing.
The question itself is fine.
I've been posting a lot of nudes, working on a few erotic stories, and fucking my wife when the kids are asleep. During the day, we find little moments to touch and tease each other. Like, throwing out double entendres to innocent questions.
It's been nice.
The frequency. My wife and I are busy, and it's hard to fit in intimate moments.
I get it. A personality seems like a hard thing to find sometimes.