[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I appreciate you for those words brother. I hope you will overcome what you are facing and get peace

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

yeah i agree tbh the times when i got laid the most was when i was just not giving a f (but i did was in the best shape of my life tho..)

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

thank you i will think about it πŸ™

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

im sorry to hear that brother. feels like we guys suffer in silence when it comes to mental health and dark phases of life. best of luck to you too. im sure we will both find peace soon πŸ™

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

nice to hear your positive view:) i am so with you about clothing but in my case im short but not narrow so i cant just buy anything at all haha L to XL fit well on my shoulder but its like a dress for me and small fit well length wise but makes me look like a sausage and boy band memberπŸ˜‚ i just always go to the tailor πŸ˜… a lot of money:( sorry for my english πŸ™

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

yeah i guess you are right. its just that i feel my height is not normal.. like im not 5'5-5'7 which considered short,but normal. i feel like my height is extreme short and its like a legitimate reason for not wanting to date me and not because someone is shallow.

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I guess you are right. i guess im kind of depressed lately so i try to blame my height for it.

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

probably a year and after it another year of walking funny. and to add that my squat will probably go down by a lot. which will suck. but still i feel like im not kind of short... im short short.

[-] niceguy@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

yeah you are right. but tbh sometime its also about being short in general. you know like every guy has is times when he feel less confident in life and in those times my height take over. i can even feel intimidated by taller guys standing near me. (and i do compensate with a lot of gym and im far stronger than the average guy but still. eye level is annoying sometime.) sorry about my english.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by niceguy@lemmy.world to c/dating@lemmy.world

im 157cm (5β€²2) 26yo male i have been in a realationship for 3years and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends. if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls. im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys. im thinking about doing it to get to 5β€²6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing. im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty

niceguy

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