I am using Matrix because Noah in his Podcast Ask Noah Show really like to talk about it.

Very interesting! I don't have that many tech friends just regular friends.

Any suggestions where to start?

I used to play counter strike too , but never got the chance to use IRC. Thank you for sharing :)

Yes as I said before its not like yes I will use Proton mail for nefarious stuff and expect that Proton will defend you against a government. The user is responsible for their data safety.

Thank you for sharing :)

Tinymediamanager the paid version is so worth it.

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Yeah those are good points , I should have mentioned it is not everyone doing self hosting. I do it because I want to learn.

If I knew how to do it , I will create a script or a one click install , manage and backup a lemmy , mastodon , etc instance. So everyone even non techie will have the availability to self host their own instance :) I dont know but that just me maybe its not worth it but who knows.

I am not into subscriptions but you seem like a nice guy with good intentions for the fediverse I wish you the best man.

This crazy guy Elon , why he wants to convert the US in China?

Oh yeah I just read about cloudfare strict but I think thats only if you proxied the request through cloudfare servers , if you just point the domain to the server I dont think you need to do that.