For those of you who weren't diagnosed until adulthood (I'm in my late 40s), what was the diagnosis process like? Are you just given a written test, or does someone evaluate you more thoroughly? Do they try to understand your symptoms, or is it more of a checklist? If anyone has personal stories they'd be willing to share, I'd love to hear them. I'm also just curious about what to expect during the appointment. Who do I make it with? A psychiatrist?
I also wonder if there are other related conditions or learning disabilities that I might have, such as dyslexia. Do I need to be proactive in asking for multiple diagnoses? Or will they be able to evaluate me for anything/everything?
I've seen many online self-assessments that use some version of the DSM questionnaire that you've mentioned. I have a hard time committing to a binary answer to an open question so these are always a nightmare for me. My answer is usually something more like "sort of" or "depends" and I get very stressed out that I'm not being truthful or accurate. I've found ways to manage my symptoms out of necessity over the years and I think that might skew my answer to some of the questions also. I still usually end up answering "yes" to five of them, but that seems like I'm on the cusp. I just feel like a list of 9 written questions lacks nuance and that's why I was hoping to hear that a more holistic approach would be part of the diagnosis process.