I really want to like Lemmy (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 months ago by moseschrute@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

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I hate big tech controlling social media. I desperately want social media to be federated.

I really love community-driven social media like Reddit. Lemmy feels… too small. I really loved that Reddit let me jump into any niche hobby, and instantly I had a community. Lemmy, you’ll be lucky if that community even exists, and if it does, chances are nobody has posted in ages.

On the other hand, Lemmy is full of political content lately. I’ve basically been doom scrolling everything US election-related, and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health.

I know I can filter content. I know I can post and be the change I seek. Yet, it feels like an uphill battle.

Not sure what the point of this is, or if it’s even the right community to vent about this. I just really want to replace Reddit, but I find myself going back more and more (e.g. r/homekit is very active compared to Lemmy version).

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[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

you gotta realize reddit didn't just "appear" one day with those obscure niche topics built out. There is a network effect large communities have. We need hundreds of thousands more members before that is possible.

I think you probably weren't there for early reddit, but most of the active posters here on Lemmy were. It was tiny. Like Lemmy.

You can't force those niche communities to exist here. It doesn't work. But what you can do is post and create valuable content. and eventually we may get there.

[-] flicker@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's so weird to me that people are so spoiled today that they feel inconvenienced when there isn't limitless content in their niche fields of interest being served to them on a platter every single day.

Those of us who remember the before times can tell you that the absolute best of a platform comes before that point. I'm sure it's lovely getting your full every single second, but the best conversation, the best education, the best introspection comes when you're allowed a few minutes between stimuli to think.

I feel like "Old woman yells at cloud" but I really feel like our younger folks who crave endless, mindless interaction, don't know what they miss out on.

[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I can't blame them, because they've been conditioned to be consumers of content. While they idealize creators, they also put up barriers in their minds as the the level of quality a given comment, piece of content, whatever, needs to achieve before getting involved.

I try and think of Lemmy as the equivalent of the Linux. We're just going to have lower adoption because there isn't a corporate juggernaut behind us promoting this thing.

But if people really want to know why reddit was able to become reddit, it happened here yesterday with cats. It's bean memes. Its Stör. Its us developing culture of our own as a community.

So its fine. I'm not too worried. We're doing great.

[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

I didn’t get a wall of voids and honestly, I feel a little left out lol.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 0 points 2 months ago

Pardon me for wanting to have a place where I can discuss my hobbies, I guess.

[-] flicker@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

You can still do that.

Start the conversation. That's what we all did, and where these communities got their start.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 0 points 2 months ago

I've tried, believe me I've tried. Posting a bunch of threads out into the void doesn't suddenly manifest a like-minded community to reply to and engage with those threads. It won't truly be viable until there's a much larger userbase to begin with.

And honestly, it just comes across as patronizing to say the only reason my hobbies don't have traction here must be because I didn't try hard enough.

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 1 points 2 months ago

And how do you think that larger userbase is going to come into existence?

[-] missingno@fedia.io 0 points 2 months ago

Not overnight, that's for sure. It's going to take a long time to ever get that kind of critical mass.

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 0 points 2 months ago

What I'm trying to get at is that people need to stay for a critical mass to be reached instead of going "there's nobody here" and leaving.

[-] missingno@fedia.io -1 points 2 months ago

I'm here, not planning on leaving any time soon. But I'm also acknowledging that Lemmy can't fully be everything Reddit was, not without a Reddit-size userbase.