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I have a few.

One is abbreviation hell. Nobody is going to spend the time trying to decipher what you mean when you use over several abbreviations. It is just better if you'd explain than expecting people to understand aside from commonly used abbreviations that are easy to understand.

Another is overstepping your limits for the sake of getting a partner. Compromising your own standards is perhaps one of the worst things you can do when it comes to trying to find dates. Like you're suddenly okay with dating single parents but you don't like children. You're suddenly okay with dating religious people but you're not religious. Things like that. Because it means you're desperate and you're setting yourself up and setting them up for a bad date.

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[-] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

I think I'm on the opposite end now, myself. My walls have gotten too high. Any tips?

[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

I remember being on the receiving end of that, and this can actually be a good limit is test on compatibility regarding communication and boundaries. First step is to communicate that you feel it moving too fast. If the person is receptive and able to recalibrate without too much drama (it's understandable to get a little taken aback), that's a great sign. If their emotions go a little haywire, it might show signs of potential issues that may need to get worked out or that y'all aren't on the same page emotionally.

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