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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I picked up on your intentions, believe me, but the origins for why it is insulting is rooted in shame, misogyny, and homophobia. To copy my comment:

"Sucking dick" as an insult is homophobic because the root is in shame. Shame, because sexual favors are seen as "subservient," which also has roots in misogyny. Given that I display my pronouns as he/they, it's pretty clearly directed in a manner that tried to depict me in a "shameful" position giving sexual favors to men.

Given that I am also pansexual, this is worse, though they had no way to know.

Tangentially, "kissing ass" has similar roots. Further still, even after having it pointed out, they defended their actions. Certainly not actions I would want a moderator of queer communities to have.

[-] HikingVet@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

So the fact that the LGBTQ+ didn't get equal rights there until after Fidel's death isn't an issue for you?

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 8 points 13 hours ago

Of course it is, now Cuba is more progressive for queer people than the vast majority of the world, including the US. I never once said Castro was a saint free of any sin.

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