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Self Improvement
A community which focusses on improving yourself. This can be in many different ways - from improving physical health or appearance, to improving mental health, creating better habits, overcoming addictions, etc.
While material circumstances beyond our control do govern much of our daily lives, people do have agency and choices to make, whether that is as "simple" as disciplining yourself to not doomscroll, to as complex as recreating yourself to have many different hobbies and habits.
This is not a place where all we do is talk about improving "productivity" (in a workplace context) and similar terms and harmful lifestyles like "grindset". Self-improvement here is intended to make you a generally better and happier person, as well as a better communist, and any other roles you may have in your life.
Rules and guidelines:
- Posts should be about self-improvement. This is obviously a wide category, and can range from advice, to finding resources, to self-posts about needing to improve in a certain area, or how you have improved, and many other things.
- Use content warnings when discussing difficult subjects.
- Do not make medical decisions solely because of a discussion you have had with any person here (e.g. whether to take or not take medications; diagnoses; etc.) as we do not vet people. All medical problems should be discussed with a real-life medical professional.
- Do not post harmful advice here. If this is seen, then please report it and we shall remove it. If you are unsure about whether it's precisely harmful advice or not but feel uneasy about it, please report it anyway.
- Do not insult other users and their lifestyles or their habits (unless they ask, I suppose). This is a place for self-improvement. Critique and discussion about a course of action is encouraged over shit-flinging. Don't talk down to people.
I quit cigarettes and currently moving away from smoking weed. A lot of it is the habit rather than the substance. I went cold turkey with cigs and struggled for two weeks before the habit went away. Weed is a different case because I still like the stuff but I want to move away from smoking specifically. I have taken to making my own infused butter and baking my own edibles. That lets me enjoy without killing my lungs. This also countered my habit of smoking as a crutch for dealing with stress; the delay from eating to effect killed that behavior. I'm also not a fan of the smell since I'm around kids more often, which is also driving my change.
On a psychological level, the reason I do this is to regain my sense of control. I'm not a fan of letting habits in the driver's seat. I partake because I want to, not because I need to. I apply this with other aspects of my life as well.