Literally did it on impulse without even thinking about it so I wouldn't chicken out, so I blurted it out.
I said "I'm bisexual. I like both men and women. No more anti-gay stuff from you, ok?".
He said, "oh go away, you don't know what you like". I think he'll understand eventually, he needs time to think.
EDIT: Showed him this thread.
I said: "Look, this is what I said to you, these are my online friends who are happy for me that I came out as bisexual."
He said: "Oh you don't know what you're talking about, you've never had sex with a man or a woman before, until then you'll never know."
And yeah, I am still holding on to my v-card at 26. I was insecure about that years ago in high school, but I'm honestly glad I've waited to mature first.
This mirrors much of what I'd expect my dad to say if I espoused my blatantly commie views to him. I think you're right about older folks needing to ruminate on our ideas for a bit to warm up to them.
I hope your dad gets there comrade![emoji penguin-love penguin-love](https://hexbear.net/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.hexbear.net%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2Ff8e15910-aba1-4810-8cd6-d2181a0895e9.png)