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You're losing your will to fight.
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Nah, not only am I not "losing my will to fight," I'm having a great time. I don't take anything online seriously.
Lemmy is NOT real life. It's an echo-chamber full of people bitching and moaning about the world ending who just love to doomscroll, and then brag about what meds they are taking to cope. It's fucking weird.
Meanwhile in real life in my neighborhood here in the US, people are visiting parks, flying kites with kids, taking walks with their dogs. I see kids riding their bikes to get ice cream. I hear kids on the playground nearby playing tag and laughing. Guy across the street is shooting the shit with his friends and having a beer. They invited me over for a bbq.
But according to Lemmy we're all doomed and about to be marched into deathcamps.
Not gonna happen.
World's not gonna end Lemmy. I promise.
Found the Trumper. I don't know what fantasy you're living in, but it's definitely not America.
I'm not a Trumper. I didn't vote for Trump. I actually voted socialist party, friend.
And yep, I live here in America. Not fantasy at all. I described what was happening outside in my view just as I was writing it.
As important and as concerning as many current events are especially in relation to American politics, I didn't consider that I needed to read this. Thanks for providing that perspective. It's a crazy world both in here and out there imo and I think the best we can do given the circumstances is to be careful about how we consume as that can promote apathy and further doomscrolling. Instead, I feel like it's for the best for any of us here to create. Doesn't matter what you make, Where you are at, or how skilled you may be but I hope for the best in all of us!
Agreed. So many on Lemmy and Reddit just doomscroll all day, all night. Never looking up to see the people around them who are smiling, going on with their lives, enjoying good conversation, hugging, kissing, laughing, etc.
The world isn't perfect. I get that. Especially depending on what country you are in.
But here in the US we have it sooooo good, it is actually rude to complain about how tough things are here, because so many other people have is way worse and actually have real problems.
Here people complain about making 80K a year on their very first jobs from college, and that their mom watches Fox News too much and/or their "all" Lemmy section has more than one post by Universal Monk. Big. Fucking. Deal. lol