Eh, this is something you can probably change. In the last few years I've done a lot of processing work and am trying to make more intentional choices for myself rather than living the way other people want me to. Now when I meet new people it reminds me that I actually quite like my life and wouldn't want to trade it for theirs.

Haha sorry! You know what helps a bit? Art. Books, poetry, painting.. they can get you real glimpses of the world through someone else's eyes.