OP already did reach out to someone for help. Thats what the disability claim is.

Do you see how requiring an extra step of "asking for help" to complete the paperwork to "ask for help" starts to be overly burdensome when it's someone specifically asking for help with their executive disfunction?

It's like requiring someone who doesn't speak English to fill out a form in English to enroll in an 'English as a second language' class.