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Hi friends ,

I've known my best friend since I was 6 years old. He's always been very, very successful. I've always looked up to him, and still do.

A couple of years ago, I confronted him about Elon. I was very concerned. Elon was becoming something I could no longer support. My friend said that he would support Tesla through thick and thin, and here we are today.

He's made a lot of money off of Elon and I'm happy for him, but I am very concerned that I should not be supporting someone that's making a living off of someone that possibly is a Nazi. I'm considering ending my friendship. I want to do the right thing. I care about you. I care about us, and I'm very scared for our future.

I'm asking you for advice on whether or not I should give up on my best friend. We've been friends for almost 40 years, and I love him dearly. I'm crying right now making these statements. Should I still seek his support?

I am just so angry. My world is becoming so hostile, and I don't know if I should separate myself from the negative influences around me. What do you guys think?

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[-] AmazingAwesomator@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

i, too, have a friend that in all-in for elon and made tons of money with tesla stock; he is an elon and trump supporter, etc.

we talk politics regularly, and almost always disagree in these conversations. it can get a little heated sometimes, but we are pretty good at catching ourselves... after all, politics are all opinion-based, so our politics being on the opposite ends if the spectrum are understandable.

if talking politics is too much for the friendship to handle, then i recommend talking about it less (even though it can be difficult when every other story in the news is about it rn). if he brings up a political point, tell him you would rather not talk politics (i say this to my father whenever he comes over, too; its a lot easier to enjoy someone's company through an enforced facade)

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

politics are all opinion-based, so our politics being on the opposite ends if the spectrum are understandable.

This is a view that is easy to hold when the political opinions have little to no effect on those discussing politics. Once one person's view steps into fascism and other hate based ideologies that spread oppression and violence it isn't politics, it is just spreading hate with a veneer of politics.

[-] Chef_Boyardee@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

We actually meet eye to eye on most topics. But, it seems that money is paramount. I have a moral objection to that. Thanks for the insight.

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