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[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 72 points 6 days ago

Just about everyone wants to see themselves in the main player character of an RPG. It’s one reason character creators exist. Why we can choose between male and female Shepard and then toggle their appearances. But why is it white men yell the loudest when they don’t see themselves in a fixed main character?

It’s a valid question. Sure there was an ask for female assassin play, but it wasn’t anything like this crude, angry, and off the rails epidemic we see far too often. Why is this population so loud and rage filled?

I happily play Witcher, and enjoy Geralt for who he is, including those tired sighs and the long hair that blows in a wind that’s not there. Geralt looks like he’s been torn off the cover of an old bodice ripper novel, which is a bit of an eye roll but adds to the humor. Even so. As a woman I had no problems with it or the game. I’ve played W3 through twice.

Enter Ciri as the main for the next game. Suddenly there’s a huge problem even though she’s the logical next Witcher. I’d like to know how she plays as a character outside the premade with gimped UI. The preview to 4 was nicely nuanced as well, a lot of detail packed into that clip apart from just simple spooky monster fighting. She clearly has a chip on her shoulder about life choices, and fair enough given her history.

Again, no raging outcry regarding Geralt or the way he looked for 3 installments. Now there’s outcry.

I’m not Japanese or Black and yet I’ll happily play this latest AC (but only after its old and goes on sale).

[-] callouscomic@lemm.ee 46 points 6 days ago

I always wanted to see anything else. I'm a human male every day. Give me a female and/or an alien or some other strange thing. Let's be different!

I never understand this need for people to mimic themselves.

[-] Doom@ttrpg.network 8 points 6 days ago

Same, non-cis white guy but I usually pick the not-me main character when given a choice. In Pokemon I'm a chick, in Stardew valley I'm a black chick, in Orcs Must Die 2 I'm the sorceress.

What kind of egotistical fuck chooses the "me" character every time

[-] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I play men characters a lot of the time because the boobs armor trend annoys me. I always try to make them look very distinct from me irl though. I really like this new trend of making all armors gender neutral (e.g BG3 and especially MH wilds, since the series had a long standing tradition of making some of the female armors really... Let's say "not realistically functional as an armor". In the new one they still have these versions but you are free to choose any of the 2 looks regardless of your character's gender).

[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 3 points 5 days ago

See I'm able to find comedy in the boob armor, but I'd much prefer to see feminine armor be designed to look equally as epic as the masculine armor designs

[-] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 days ago

Some archetypes of boobs armor can work e.g the half naked barbarian, which is fairly gender neutral too thanks to Conan and shit, but sometimes it's ridiculous.

[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 4 days ago

I've talked before about how hilarious Verac's Brassard, a pretty dang good piece of Armor from RuneScape is. Visually it's a giant shoulder plate with a couple of leather straps to hold it in place, but it's somehow a very competent armor stat-wise especially when considering the cost to purchase it or work to acquire it as a drop. (The wiki page indicates it's basically useless, but back in the day it was a common budget selection for armor because anything better costs at least quadruple, if not orders of magnitude more than what the brassard would cost)

It hilariously has more coverage on the feminine model than on the masculine model

[-] Adm_Drummer@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I typically play female characters in games too. Always have. They're something outside my world experience, I can experience the story through a lense I may not have seen otherwise.

It's nice to see yourself represented but like... Shiiiiiiit dude. I'm reading a book or playing a game to be immersed in the story. Why people put so much stock into who or what a character is; it's beyond me.

I just want some good stories with good characters. I can't fucking wait to kick ass as Cirilla in the Witcher. I loved being Girlboss V in Cyberpunk, Senua was stellar.

Open world RPG? Bet your ass I wanna be goth mommy in plate armour ripping out a dragon's throat.

Also sometimes games had smaller hitboxes for women and little me fucked with that more than anything.

[-] frozen@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 1 points 4 days ago

I made my character in XCX a woman for the same reason. I'm a boring ass white straight cis dude. Games are a fantasy and escape from real life, maybe I wanna play as a chick or black guy or trans person or alien or something, fucking who gives a shit. I played Persona 5, and I wasn't mad that I'm not actually a 16-year-old Japanese boy.

[-] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

That's how I see it too. It's fun experiencing different things.

[-] Thistlewick@lemmynsfw.com 10 points 6 days ago

White, cis, and male has been the default for hundreds of years. When a piece of media presents an alternative, some white cis males consider it an attack on their very being. They see faces that are not their own and think that this ‘correction’ of centuries of oppression means that the media is saying that being white or male is inherently wrong.

It’s narrow-minded and selfish, but in a way that’s akin to a toddler who has never had to share their toys before. Hopefully they will eventually grow up and understand that the world does not revolve around them. They’ve just never had to experience that fact before.

[-] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I do recall some people being upset that they basically "yassified" Geralt from the witcher 2 and onwards. According to the books he's supposed to look "weird" or something like that. Like, not repulsive but definitely not sexy, with slightly "unnatural" proportions and beast-like traits, etc. Which I think they nailed in the first game, through the low definition textures and models probably help a lot with the uncanniness.

I find that people crying about non-white male and/or non-bimbo female MCs are outrage tourists pushing their stupid gamergate agenda 99% of the time. At this point I don't know why we are even acknowledging them anymore.

[-] Rozz@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 6 days ago

I'm not a samurai or a ninja and it would be fairly weird to see a white man in Japan at that time especially in those roles. I don't need to see myself.

Also have these people never read a book where they aren't represented by the main character? ( pre-edit: true, they probably don't/can't read)

[-] yamper@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

this is beside your point but nioh 1 had a white samurai based on a historical figure. i bet the chuds werent upset about that when it came out.

[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 5 days ago

I've been listening to the audiobooks of the Witcher series and honestly it's a series far more about Ciri than it is about Geralt. Garalt is only important because of his connection via destiny to Ciri (and of course he was the main character of the short stories that preceded the longform books) but as Ciri grew up and became capable of protecting herself he became less important until even destiny stopped caring about Geralt.

Also Ciri never received the full Witcher mutations because the process for performing the mutations was lost not long after Geralt became a Witcher. She received a partial mutation via a witcher's diet at Ker Moren (i imagine that's like HRT for trans people in that the hormones are what does most of the heavy lifting, and the surgeries just round out the transition) but that's it. The rest is all her being a bad-ass on her own. I'm excited to play as her and see the kinds of bad-assery and moral quagmires she finds herself the center of

[-] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Thankfully this isn't ubiquitous, at least in my experience. The Hades franchise has its second game in beta (is it still in beta? I haven't checked in in a few months) with a female lead and I haven't noticed a peep about that. Hopefully that's not just the communities I'm part of and it's actually been received as well as I've perceived

Basically "not all gamers" but not in an asshole way haha

[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 2 points 5 days ago

There’s no such thing as always or never when it comes to people, except death.

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