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this post was submitted on 20 Apr 2025
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I can't say much for how the straight demographic at that age is holding up because the only straight people i hang out with are a few pre-transition friends who are roughly my age, but when i'm in queer spaces and have a conversation with younger women i often hear them say stuff like "you know, i'm actually pan, BUT ..." and then the horror stories about why they've given up on men begin.
I'm a newly minted pan, BUT am terrified of dating guys. However, I don't pass as a woman at all—even if someone did my makeup (have not learned how to do it myself), my voice would give me away anyway—so I'm not as worried about cishet guys trying to hit on me/be awful to me. I know queer guys should be better but idk, mostly just looking for t4t right now.