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Self Improvement
A community which focusses on improving yourself. This can be in many different ways - from improving physical health or appearance, to improving mental health, creating better habits, overcoming addictions, etc.
While material circumstances beyond our control do govern much of our daily lives, people do have agency and choices to make, whether that is as "simple" as disciplining yourself to not doomscroll, to as complex as recreating yourself to have many different hobbies and habits.
This is not a place where all we do is talk about improving "productivity" (in a workplace context) and similar terms and harmful lifestyles like "grindset". Self-improvement here is intended to make you a generally better and happier person, as well as a better communist, and any other roles you may have in your life.
Rules and guidelines:
- Posts should be about self-improvement. This is obviously a wide category, and can range from advice, to finding resources, to self-posts about needing to improve in a certain area, or how you have improved, and many other things.
- Use content warnings when discussing difficult subjects.
- Do not make medical decisions solely because of a discussion you have had with any person here (e.g. whether to take or not take medications; diagnoses; etc.) as we do not vet people. All medical problems should be discussed with a real-life medical professional.
- Do not post harmful advice here. If this is seen, then please report it and we shall remove it. If you are unsure about whether it's precisely harmful advice or not but feel uneasy about it, please report it anyway.
- Do not insult other users and their lifestyles or their habits (unless they ask, I suppose). This is a place for self-improvement. Critique and discussion about a course of action is encouraged over shit-flinging. Don't talk down to people.
BENCHED 225 lbs! VICTORY!
I have four interviews coming up. I’m going to be employed soon, I just know it!
Two whole months where I have never touched alcohol. Never had a problem with it, but I want to limit it.
Spent most of this weekend touching grass, I even had small talk with strangers
ran into someone from college. No guarantee they’ll call me back but I gave them my number and we shot the shit for a few minutes
I feel like I have made some epiphanies and I’ll share them in my new goals.
New goals:
I have realized I have been not the best friend, not that I think it’s malice but I am piss poor at reaching out to people, especially long distance friends. So I want to work up the courage to reach out to people more
I want to make progress in learning skills to live alongside my autism. Especially if the possibility of living away from my parents might be a possibility.
I want some hobbies. Recently in my grass touching adventures I’ve been in the vicinity of a gay venue and realized y’all are nerds (and nerds are very much my people.) Specifically, I’d like to get started in learning some art form, whether it be drawing, music, 3d modeling in blender, or animation, I’d love to make some silly little trinkets and possibly be a producer of culture and not just a consumer.
Regarding the new hobbies, I always advise people to learn playing the guitar.
It is relatively easy to pick up, you can go from zero to playing your favourite songs in just a few weeks. I suggest taking a few lessons at first but it's also possible to learn on your own since there are a lot of resources online. Learning the guitar makes it easier to learn other, more complicated instruments if you wish. I think it's one of the best hobbies for people looking to be more creative
Actually sounds pretty good, always a good conversation starter as an added bonus.
Holy moly!