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Upset, ignore if you don't want to hear a man upset
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Dude... You are OK ruining your life because it will fuck up your credit? Man gtfo. Better to have shit credit for a while.
Shes done it once. Thats enough to know its a possibility. She's done it twice, thats enough to know its not an accident. She is going to do it again. Her mom could a told you that.
Hope it doesnt sound like I'm chastizing but your priorities are goofy. You are fixing to marry this person who ghosted you and beat you and had you arrested. Run. Even if it hurts your credit.
Nah, what you are saying is fair. The part that wasn't stated on my end was that affording to pay a down payment and rent on a new place while sorting everything out here just wasnt in any kind of monetary situation. Rent would be around 1600 minimum plus 1,600 down. Conglomerating let alone hiding 3,200 dollars is extremely hard on my budget. (,not saying sticking to budget is what I'd do, I'm saying if I forced it, I couldn't make it I any way right now)
It gets easier when you dont pay your lease. Use your rent money to gtfo and let her worry about her.