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What makes you think that logically follows? Why would it not create competing self-interests that can't coexist?
Even if you broaden it to acting for indirect reciprocal benefit plenty of people act in ways that don't have a reciprocal benefit. Just look at the Madleen flotilla, everyone there is putting themselves at personal risk for no personal tangible benefit - the position of self interest would be to stay safely away from the war at home. Look at all the local charities that help vulnerable members of their communities for no personal benefit. Look at people acting against their self interest just within their own families, like supporting elderly parents despite the costs and even though their death would speed their inheritance. There is a huge range of actions that fall outside of both direct and indirect self interest that people take every day.
I think that you might be ignoring "spiritual" self interest. It deeply upsets and enrages me (and every other reasonable person) to see people brutalized like in Gaza. My mental health would literally be better if such atrocities weren't happening.
But why? It doesn't affect you. It isn't in your self interest to be upset by those things, it just makes you feel bad. Wouldn't it be more reasonable to say that you are simply able to feel and act selflessly rather than invent a form of self interest that involves caring about other people?
I think i get what you're saying but isn't empathy a basic human emotion. Obviously stronger in some people then others but it's not something that can be just switched off. I suppose i could willfully ignor what's going on. Which in someways i guess i am doing...
Absolutely it is, and it even seems to be hard coded in many non communal species, like the wombats that open their burrows to other animals during Australian wildfires, but empathy isn't powered by the idea of reciprocation. It's an inherently selfless feeling that doesn't consider either direct or indirect benefits for the self, and it doesn't make sense to say that acting on those selfless feelings, against your self interest, is itself selfish.