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[-] CidVicious@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

See, for me, if you call me and don't leave a voicemail, I'm going to assume it was unimportant (or spam) and I won't call back. Businesses, which are most likely going to an unknown number, should leave a voicemail if they want any action on my part. I mostly don't want businesses texting me because they tend to spam the fuck out of you. And I'm sure as fuck never going to pick up the phone for an unknown number.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Recently, I've been getting calls I'm pretty sure are spam. They are all from different numbers, but all of the area codes are from where I got my phone number, which is quite far from where I live now. Additionally, they all do leave voicemails, but each and every one is exactly thirty seconds of silence.

Spam or not, I can't figure out the point.

[-] Spookyghost@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago

They spoof a number close to your number to increase the chance you pickup, they don't know you moved.

I'd bet the silence calls are to determine if a phone number is active.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I definitely know about the spoofing - that's what made me figure it was spam initially.

The waiting for a voice response makes sense, but I've never encountered a system that didn't at least say some form of "hello." Not this persistent of one, anyway.

Thanks!

[-] atro_city@fedia.io 4 points 1 month ago

Probably a bot waiting for a voice in order to start. It waits until it hangs up.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

That makes sense, and I appreciate the information.

You'd think they would have marked me as inactive by now - they've been calling every day or two, including weekends, for more than a month. I haven't answered once! The persistence is the only thing that made me question whether it was spam.

[-] BigDaddySlim@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Had this problem too (phone number is from NM but I'm in MA now) so I just started messing with them. I'd answer "Federal Bureau of Investigation, Albuquerque district office, how may I direct your call?" Click. After about a week of doing this I haven't gotten a single spam call, this was like 2 years ago. Who cares it it's "impersonating a federal agency" or whatever, they're scammers overseas, fuck em.

[-] CidVicious@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

It's AI, I'd be willing to bet. Waiting to detect a human before responding with whatever scam they're selling.

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

And I’m sure as fuck never going to pick up the phone for an unknown number.

You've gotta be diligent: if you do business with something, like a project or an appointment, you need to drop their number into your contact list. Every time. Yeah, it's neat if you need to reach out to them, which will be never because it's on the phone, but it's primarily so they can call you and not be unknown.

I'd love a QR code with the org's phone/mail/blah number on it at the front desk, because I do in-person a lot because fuck the phone.

[-] Lenny@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Sometimes it’s fun, when you know it’s spam, to answer it while it’s ringing (which may let the operator know ‘hey, they answered, start talking’) and quickly hit Speaker and Mute and enjoy 5-10 sec of them being confused when they hear silence back.

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