If you want to join in a game, I'm probably as safe as you're gonna get. At least all things considered. I've got a reputation riding on it lol that and the fact that I am AGGRESSIVELY protective of my players because they're also my friends. I don't tolerate people being a dick but I'm not the dude to just attack someone. Chats are more productive. And I run session 0s, or just little hang out sessions, to see how everyone vibes.