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[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 48 points 1 month ago

i mean people tend to like confidence, also you get to stop wallowing in ignorance. conventionally attractive or not, either they say yes or no and then you get to move forward from there. going from not knowing to knowing, that is a positive.

[-] Saleh@feddit.org 30 points 1 month ago

You should know when it is appropriate to ask and when not:

Don'ts:

  • complete strangers
  • people who cannot retreat, e.g. cashiers, waiters and the like, on a busy train/bus in an elevator etc.
  • people clearly not in a space to socialize.
  • asking for sex
  • being ambigious about intentions

Do's:

  • people you held a normal conversation with before
  • in a space where they are comfortable and either party can leave easily if things get awkward
  • being clear about it being a date
  • public place with individual privacy, e.g. going out for a coffee
  • no alcohol or other drugs
[-] Halosheep@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Don't forget the most important 2:

  • Be attractive

  • Don't be unattractive

[-] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago

Important note: While bullet point 1 may be about physical attractiveness, bullet point 2 is not.

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