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[-] fushuan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

If you've ever been the victim of bullying you should already know that bystanders, by not stopping the perpetrators, implicitly validate it. That's how the perpetrators continue.

If you have not been a victim of public harrassment, kindly, stfu.

[-] riverSpirit@thelemmy.club -1 points 1 day ago

Don’t you dare demand the public step in to risk their life when you won’t even leave a relationship.

[-] fushuan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

I'm not demanding anything, I'm countering your point that silent disapproval means that it's shunned upon. It's not. I'm not blaming anyone for not stepping in, I've also not stepped in several times, but be aware that that's enabling.

"Society is against this kind of behaviour" no it isn't, it fucking isn't. Sometimes individuals have good reasons, whatever, but the conclusion is that abusers feel enabled. And I'm not even touching the disparity between genders in these situations.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Ooh spicy take

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