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[-] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone -4 points 1 week ago

Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I'm sure!

[-] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 22 points 1 week ago

Would you say that domeatic abuse victims have good relations with their abusive parents?

[-] Acinonyx@lemmy.sdf.org -1 points 1 week ago

blahaj.zone

what did you expect?

[-] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

I think they were saying that "good relationship with dad" isn't a prerequisite for "marrying a dad-alike," that sometimes "bad relationship with dad" also gets "married to dad-alike," they're just both bad guys in the latter case.

Like, a woman who's dad beat her/mom as a child can grow up to marry a husband who also beats her/their child too, and in that way she has married someone like her dad.

I don't think they were claiming that being abusive is good, nor do I think that's the general consensus on blahaj.

[-] Samsy@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 days ago

Agreed. Maybe I didn't think about all possible variants of my introductory statement.

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 week ago

(But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).

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[-] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Yes, that's what I was referring to, it's not exclusively women who've had good relationships with their fathers, some go for their aggressive and violent father's look-alike.

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