How do you justify buying something you want but don’t need? (lemmy.sdf.org)

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Hello again Lemmy! I have another question.

Context: I took a motorcycle safety class, was nervous but enjoyed it, researched motorcycles, found a few I liked, talked to a dealer about them but ultimately, I couldn’t finalize a deal, talked myself out of it basically.

I was curious how others might justify a purchase that has no purpose other than wanting something.

For clarity, I don’t need anyone to justify me buying a motorcycle. I want to read about your thought processes for buying something you want 🙂

As always thanks for replying and have an awesome day/night!!

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[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 days ago

I was like you, pretty bad about money in my younger years. Sadly, I think I went full 180 and now I’m hyper concerned about it.

Specific to this, I have the money and it wouldn’t impact me negatively (meaning the emergency fund would still be there).

The dealer was great no pressure. They currently have a great deal on one. I did take a step back and waited a few days. I’m still thinking about it though… maybe because it’s such a good deal.

I’ll work on not belly aching (that made me laugh) but I have found that as I get older… being an adult gets in the way of being happy or having fun, well, for me it does.

Thank you so much for the response and things to consider!!

this post was submitted on 22 Jul 2025

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