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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by gay_king_prince_charles@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

r/myboyfreindisai is wild

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[-] MF_COOM@hexbear.net 35 points 2 weeks ago

Tbh I would not trust the majority of those thirsty dudes to supply what these women want without spamming dick pics and pushing every conversation towards sext

[-] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 35 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, dismissing these women getting AI boyfriends as just being lonely femcels strikes me as reactionary. What's the situation that produced this result in the first place? Are you sure you want to go back to that situation?

In any case, this is a really marx-doomer alienation situation.

[-] PKMKII@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

I get the point you’re making, but anecdotally my observation is that women who get disillusioned with dating because of misogyny in men more often just end up being happy with the single life. So I wouldn’t say every woman on there is a femcel loner with a toxic personality, but I’m guessing they do make up the majority of the sub.

[-] purpleworm@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Femcels are also produced by situations, like literally every kind of person that has existed has been

[-] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, fair, the point is that the reasons that caused the group to exist should be examined.

[-] purpleworm@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

I agree with that, it just seemed like we were making delineations in groups of people who were produced by situations versus those that weren't when basically any subculture can be described in terms of being produced by systems, and I think anyone can be criticized but likewise every case of groups of people being produced should be analyzed at a systemic level as well. I'm not just saying it to be a pedant, I think that it's a critical element of rehabilitative justice that most people on a board like this hopefully find pretty uncontroversial.

[-] mrfugu@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah I would say that those at the bottom of the emotional intelligence barrel deserve each other, if it wasn’t for the patriarchy.

[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I guess, but my point is I've seen tons of erp shit online and there's plenty of willing partners out there to engage with instead of using your magic speak and spell that induces psychosis.

[-] MF_COOM@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

I honestly don't think this is even mostly erp. My bet it is mostly companionship, and there's not tons of universally supportive, engaged and attentive dudes for every woman who wants one (which is basically every het woman)

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