How do you justify buying something you want but don’t need? (lemmy.sdf.org)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

48 comments fedilink hide all child comments

Hello again Lemmy! I have another question.

Context: I took a motorcycle safety class, was nervous but enjoyed it, researched motorcycles, found a few I liked, talked to a dealer about them but ultimately, I couldn’t finalize a deal, talked myself out of it basically.

I was curious how others might justify a purchase that has no purpose other than wanting something.

For clarity, I don’t need anyone to justify me buying a motorcycle. I want to read about your thought processes for buying something you want 🙂

As always thanks for replying and have an awesome day/night!!

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[-] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 3 days ago

I appreciate your perspective on this. I’m actually starting to believe that I’m not supposed to enjoy life 🙂

I’m just here to go through the motions.

Your point about want is a struggle for sure. Not just for me but a lot of people I assume.

In my case I have no idea if it will bring any happiness or satisfaction. TBH, it will probably end up in the graveyard of hobbies. Which is probably why I won’t buy one.

It’s a challenge for sure… spend to find out you don’t like something but, you had to spend money to find out if you like something.

Thank you responding!!

this post was submitted on 22 Jul 2025

46 points (100.0% liked)

Asklemmy

49665 readers

682 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
!lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 6 years ago

MODERATORS