the difference is that there isn't just one instance of Lemmy that bans you from the entirety of Lemmy. Antisemites are free to make their own instances as are israelites or communists.

In the short time iv actively actually used Lemmy.

Iv learned it's incredibly anti Ai, pro communism and hates religion with a burning passion.

But it also almost always is .ml instance users being the most vocal users on every post i see.

Iv just gotten to the point when I see .ml I assume it's some jaded asshole who hates everyone else. As they always do the thing I see religious people do and just dog pile anyone who disagrees with them.

But one of the healthiest things iv done for my mental health on here is literally never read any replies. If I naturally come across a reply during a rereading of a post I'll respond but other wise.

I literally do not read any reply. I also delete most of my comments after a little bit.