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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[-] paraphrand@lemmy.world 39 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Dead isn’t precise enough. Expensive is generally what they mean. Along with many free spaces being dead.

Having to spend money to socialize is a concern for many. Often times this is a lack of a car too. Or lack of public transportation. Sprawl, Stroads.

It’s a multi variate thing when people quip that third places are dead.

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