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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 29 points 4 days ago

I found a local private club where drinks are cheap and there’s tons of regular customers. Feels like what the Cheers bar seemed like on TV.

[-] Feyd@programming.dev 15 points 4 days ago
[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

It’s pretty great. Everyone is really chill and if you just want to find a comfy chair and read you can do that, too.

I can’t wait for football season, not because I particularly like football, but because I like watching football with everybody.

And a few drinks and a couple appetizers are like $60, tops.

Oh, and the bartenders know your favorite drink and will just start making it when you walk in.

And the stereo, quieter or louder than the ass end of a 727?

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Loud enough to hear but quiet enough to talk to someone across the bar.

And it’s got one of those jukeboxes where you can pick the song and there’s not many people so you’ve got a good chance of hearing it.

And folks who aren’t there will pick a song to let their friends know they’re thinking about them.

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